Dayan’s Graduation Party

It has been a beautiful weekend, spent with family. The focus of our time has been celebrating my grandson Dayan as he graduated from Carl Junction High School Friday night, turned 18 years old on that same day, and was the guest of honor at a party this afternoon.

I shared my thoughts around Dayan’s milestone Friday night. Read that post HERE.

Tonight’s post is a pictorial one, sharing highlights from the party, and concluding with a sweet video created by Dayan’s mom.

Dayan's Graduation Party
Dayan's Graduation Party The guest of honor

Dayan's Graduation Party Aunt Adriel, Mimi Jerri, Steve

Dayan's Graduation Party             Mimi Pat and Papa Walter

Dayan's Graduation Party Cousins Kaleb and Aubrey, with Uncle Nate in between

Dayan's Graduation Party

Dayan and his friends have a friendly little game going!

Dayan's Graduation Party

Dayan's Graduation Party Aunts Debbie and Linda, with cousin Eric and his girls, London and Aralyn. 

Dayan's Graduation Party Uncle Tim with his boys, Ethan, Levi and Isaiah, and Elissa and Walter. Somehow I missed getting a pic of Aunt DeLane! 

Dayan's Graduation Party

Stepdad Josh, Mom Elissa, Papa Greg

Dayan's Graduation Party

Dayan's Graduation Party         Brother Jonathan, cousin Ethan. 

Dayan's Graduation Party                Dayan and his Papa Greg

After the party, as we were cleaning up and loading the cars, Dayan had the wonderful idea of releasing the two red and black Carl Junction Bulldogs balloons. With Aubrey as his helper, he carried the helium filled balloons to the parking lot. Those who remained after the party gathered to watch. It felt like an important moment.

Dayan's Graduation Party
Dayan's Graduation Party
Dayan's Graduation Party
I love that series of photos. I appreciate that anytime Dayan interacts with a child, he kneels down so he’s on the same level. And I find so much meaning in the middle photo. Dayan has just released the ballons, symbolizing letting go of his time in Carl Junction schools.

It is not a forgetting of those years. He is just not holding on to them. Look at his open hand as the balloons fly away. Releasing balloons has become a way of honoring someone or something…and a way of saying goodbye. Dayan is open to receive what will come next, enjoying these moments, looking upward and onward to a bright future.

And little Aubrey standing beside him represents all of us who are walking alongside Dayan as he journeys…family and friends, colleagues and teachers. We all stood and watched the balloons soar higher and higher, until they disappeared.

Dayan's Graduation Party
A chapter closes. And an exciting new one begins…

Enjoy this video of Dayan’s journey thus far, prepared with great love, and many tears, by his beautiful mom.

 

Would You Rather…

My great-nephews Ethan and Kaleb taught me a new game this evening. During this family oriented weekend, in between Dayan’s graduation last night and his celebratory party tomorrow afternoon, I spent time with my mom, sisters and nephews. We capped our fun day together with a board game I had not heard of before. 

Would You Rather...
This interesting and fast paced board game, by Zobmondo!!, is created around the idea of asking the question, Would you rather…followed by two options. An example is Would you rather have two bats with you in the bedroom OR five pigeons in the kitchen?  The person taking a turn reads the question silently first, and then writes down which option he or she thinks the majority of the players will choose. 

The others players discuss the options and the majority decides. Correctly guessing the most poplular option allows the player to continue rolling the dice and moving around the board. 

Would You Rather...        Kaleb and I were partners. 

There are also Challenge Cards. If a player lands on a challenge space on the board, he can accept a challenge, such as singing and dancing for 30 seconds, or holding your tongue, literally, while two other players take their turns, or holding a pose. 

The winner of the game is the person who makes it to the highest level and successfully completes a final challenge. 

Would You Rather...
Would You Rather...
This was a fun, and in our case, rambunctious game. The boys really got into it. Kaleb is only five and although he is a very good reader, we partnered up and made a great team. We all snacked on fruit and hummus with non GMO chips as we played. 

Laughter and animated discussions were the norm for our evening as we figured out which crazy option we would rather do. The challenges weren’t always as easy as they appeared to be. Ethan quickly grew tired of holding his tongue, but nailed a 30 second dance routine accompanied by humming. 

Would You Rather...
I highly recommend Would You Rather… It was interesting to see who chose which options and why. And the game provided intriguing glimpses into our own psyches as we pondered impossible choices. Would you rather see upside down OR hear backwards? Hmmmm…

I appreciate the boys suggesting a game night, and Mom, Linda and Debbie joining in. I enjoy trying out new games and playing is such a fun way to learn. Would you rather play in solitude on your phone OR play a clever board game with family? 

You know which option we all chose!

Would You Rather...
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Dayan’s Milestone Day

A year ago, when my daughter Elissa found out Dayan’s graduation day would be on May 19, which is his birthday, I had two thoughts: That will be an easy date to remember. And the next year will go by so fast. I was correct on both counts. I never once wondered what day graduation would be. And the year flew by. 

Dayan's Milestone Day

My grandson, my oldest grandchild, the boy who made me a grandmother and christened me with the name Yaya, reached this momentous day exactly on time actually. To his family, and especially his mother, it marked the completion of a year that was full of “lasts”. The last marching band performance, the last parade, the last competition and ceremony and award, the last time to walk to school, the last time to walk out of the Carl Junction High School, the last time to play the tuba that he has played for years. 

Dayan's Milestone DayOne year old Dayan, experiencing bubbles for the first time. Meme by Elissa. 

I thought about Dayan throughout this day, as he celebrated a birthday and prepared to graduate tonight, and the word “milestones” came to mind. A milestone is an event or action marking a significant change or stage in development. Dayan has had many of those mile markers in the last 18 years, signifiers of growth, times of deeper awareness, ahas that profoundly shaped his future. 

It has been my pleasure to walk alongside him as he has journeyed, and witness those times when a “stone” was placed at a significant juncture. I’ve watched him as an intelligent, kind, compassionate boy who always knew the right encouraging words to share with people. I saw him as a young teenager stepping up to fully occupy his unique Dayan shaped space, gaining confidence in who he was and what his gifts and abilities were. 

Dayan's Milestone Day                 Photo by Elissa

These past two years, the milestones became defining ones as Dayan could say “This is me…this is not me. This is what I want to do…this is what I don’t want to do. This is the path I am choosing for my life…this is not the path for me…” with a surety that so inspired me. Along with common milestones like getting his driver’s license and a job, he had major shifts as he decided on a future career in politics and selected University of Missouri as the college he would attend this fall. 

It is not a coincidence that Dayan experienced two momentous milestones on the same day. He turned 18 years old today and graduated from high school. Both signify leaving childhood behind and entering adulthood, dual doors closing and opening at the same time as a new adventure beckons. 

Dayan's Milestone Day
Dayan's Milestone DayDayan, Elissa and Josh

This evening it was with great joy, and a host of other emotions, that I watched my grandson walk across the stage to receive his diploma. Family members surrounded me. We beamed and cheered and perhaps shed a few tears that this milestone had been reached. This boy has become a man. This child has reached the point of spreading his wings to see just how high and how far he can fly. 

I am proud of this incredible young man. I am proud of my daughter, who has been an extraordinary momma to her son, fierce in her love and devotion to him, never failing to seek the best for her child and encouraging him to be all that he could be. And I am proud of my son-in-law, who came into Dayan’s life as a stepdad, but who has parented him with an open and generous heart. 

Dayan's Milestone Day
Dayan's Milestone Day
When he was a toddler, Dayan and I began an ongoing series of stories that we affectionately called “The Continuing Adventures of Dayan and Yaya”. Those were fun and imaginative stories that we created. However, we have had many, many real life adventures, this boy and I. Spending time together, Dayan has helped me to see the world differently. He has helped me to see myself differently. He allows me to be fully myself. We laugh. We learn new things. We go places. 

We have a big adventure coming up, a trip to Italy that Elissa is joining us on. And then soon, Dayan will set off on adventures of his own, going places I will not go, seeing things I will not see. Milestones stretch behind us, a map of times we’ve celebrated and events we’ve shared. The road stretches onward, full of possibilities and opportunities. There are exciting times ahead for him that he will memorialize, saying “Here…this time, this place, is important in my life.” 

No matter where he is, no matter where I am…I’ll pause to celebrate those future achievements and milestones with him, whether in person or in my heart. 

Happy birthday Dayan. Happy graduation day. Happy first day of the rest of your amazing life. Go forth. Be you. Be Light in the world. I love you!

Dayan's Milestone Day   Photo and composition by Elissa

Most Artistic

Unbelievably, today was the last day of school for Joplin. I picked up my granddaughter Aubrey after a half day at school completed her 2nd grade journey. Her eyes were bright as she climbed into the car. 

“I have something to show you,” she said with excitement. “Don’t look yet.” 

Most Artistic

As I maneuvered the car across the school parking lot, I heard her rummaging in her backpack. When I stopped at the exit to wait on traffic, she had me look at what she was holding in her hands. 

Each child in Ms. Compton’s 2nd grade classroom received an award today. From a wide range of categories, the students voted on which child would be honored with which award. Aubrey won the most votes for the “Most Artistic” Award. 

Most Artistic
Aubrey told me how pleased she was to be the recipient of this award. However, the significance was much greater than just receiving a certificate. This was an achievement that signified the realization of an intention Aubrey set in January 2015. 

Shortly after the second semester of kindergarten started for Aubrey, she brought me a goal she had written out in class. It accompanied an illustration and the printed words read: 

Most Artistic
Most Artistic

My goal is to be a betr rtist.” Aubrey

Six year old Aubrey entrusted me with her goal. She asked me to be the keeper of her intention, and I have done so…for more than two years. We’ve discussed her artwork frequently as she has gained more skill and developed her own creative style, often referring back to the goal she declared in 2015.

She understood today that this piece of paper she received at school represented two years of honing her abilities and allowing her creativity to shine forth. It represented Aubrey’s desire to be more artistic and succeeding at meeting her goal. And it encouraged her that her classmates view her as an artist. 

Most Artistic

I love Aubrey’s artistic style, which is playful and expressive. I appreciate her awareness of how life works and how everything connects together. Most of all, I love Aubrey and her creative heart. 

We had a wonderful conversation about setting intentions and seeing them realized. We discussed creativity and art and how everyone has gifts to offer to the world. Aubrey couldn’t wait to surprise the rest of her family with her award and to tell the story of how it came about.  

Most Artistic
Such a special moment deserves to be celebrated and commemorated. I asked Aubrey if she would like a frame for her certificate, so she could display it in her room. We drove to Michael’s, where Aubrey selected a simple white frame. 

I thought she might go with something more, well, artistic, but she had other ideas. 

At her house, she told me she knew exactly where the framed certificate could go. A spot was already prepared. Aubrey showed me a cleared corner on top of her bookcase. 

She carefully placed her award on the shelf and then Aubrey did her artistic thing. She added little creative touches to the plain frame, personalizing it and making it uniquely hers. My eyes filled with tears as I watched her. I learn so much from my grandchildren. 

Aubrey. From wanting to be a better artist in 2015…to Most Artistic in 2017. She shines. 

Most Artistic

On the Border

One of the thing I’ve enjoyed, since I began blogging in 2014, is trying out new restaurants. Joplin is an average sized city that serves a large rural area. We have a great selection of restaurants, individually owned and those that are part of a franchise. I love when a new place opens up. I get to try it out and write up a review. 

Tonight I visited the recently opened On the Border Mexican Grill, located at 3030 S Range Line, with Greg, my younger daughter Adriel, and her husband Nate. 

On the Border
The first On The Border restaurant opened in Dallas, Texas in 1982. Originally based on sizzling fajitas, frosty margaritas, happy hour and a booming patio, the restaurant has evolved and expanded over time to include a variety of dishes inspired by the cuisines of South Texas and Mexico.

Today, with more than 150 restaurants throughout the United States, On The Border remains passionate about sharing a love for good Mexican food, spirits and fun.

On the Border
The Joplin restaurant was bright, clean and spacious, with a casual dining atmosphere. Our waitress was friendly and attentive. We dined at 6:00 and they had a good crowd there, however there were plenty of tables available still for seating. 

Since adopting a plant based lifestyle, eating out can be challenging. However, restaurants offering Mexican cuisine typically offer some vegetarian options. If nothing else, I can always order veggie fajitas without cheese or the tortillas. 

Adriel and Nate were scanning a menu, checking out vegetarian choices, when Greg and I arrived. I so appreciate the support I have from my family. Everyone, from my mother to my grandchildren, understands my desire to improve my health through the food I eat. They continually encourage me. 

On the Border
On the Border offers several options for plant based diners. I chose a wonderful bowl with black beans, lettuce, cilantro lime rice, grilled red peppers, zucchini and yellow squash and a large portobello mushroom, grilled and sliced. I asked that the queso be omitted and they were happy to honor my request. 

The bowl was delicious! I topped my meal with a little salsa. It was perfect. Portions were generous and the food was fresh and flavorful. I’ll be back, to see what else I can savor from the menu. 

I enjoyed my dinner. And I enjoyed chatting with  Greg, Adriel and Nate, who graciously picked up the tab. It was wonderful to catch up on news and hear about the most recent rescue animal to arrive at these two animal lovers’ house. They found a domestic black and white bunny, wearing a pink collar, running with wild rabbits in their neighborhood. The rabbit went home with them. 

So far efforts to locate her owners have not been successful. I suspect Adriel and Nate have a new pet joining their little menagerie. She will be well cared for, if that’s the case. They are calling her Mildred, as both of these young adults had a Grandma Mildred in their families. 

I love these two compassionate people.  I’m proud to be Adriel’s mom and Nate’s mom-in-law. And they were willing to let me try out a new restaurant tonight. Gracias! 

On the Border

Love a Tree Day

Today is Love a Tree Day. I was drawn to this unique holiday for several reasons and I couldn’t have conjured up a better day for being outside and loving on a tree than this gorgeous spring day. The sunshine was plentiful and a strong breeze from the east cooled my skin while bringing incredible swirling energy to tease me. 

Love a Tree Day
Love a Tree Day is always celebrated on May 16. The purpose is to encourage people to get outside and show love and appreciation for trees and the benefits they provide. Trees give off oxygen. They provide shade, protection, beauty, fruit, and warmth. The huge maple tree that recently came down near my backyard has even provided wonderful, natural planters and simple garden stands for containers. 

Love a Tree Day
I do love trees. I am drawn to forests and a variety of individual trees and tree motifs. Walking among trees grounds and centers me. I have journals featuring trees on the covers, tree artwork, and jewelry with trees on it. I am surprised that the tree has not yet been a symbol for me during one of my themed years. I trust it will be, at the perfect time. 

Love a Tree Day
It was easy to find a tree to love on this afternoon. My favorite tree is the Redbud. In the spring brilliant red violet blooms adorn the branches of this compact tree. The leaves are heart shaped. And the tree maintains a lovely silhouette throughout its life. 

After watering containers and planting a couple of herbs in the garden, I sat in the swing beneath the Redbud Tree in my front yard. The sweet eastern breeze whipped my hair around and kissed my neck and cheeks, making me smile. The Redbud shaded me, its leafy boughs swaying in the wind. 

Love a Tree DayLooking upward into Redbud

It was so peaceful, sitting beneath Redbud’s green canopy. This tree survived the 2011 tornado that struck my Joplin neighborhood. Tragically, its companion on the other side of the yard did not. A six year old Redbud is growing taller each season where Old Redbud once stood. The tree sheltering me sustained damage, enduring twisted branches that have split. I am grateful each spring when the clusters of “red buds” appear, signifying life. 

Love a Tree Day
The teasing breeze…with its  high energy…raised my vibrational frequency and my awareness. An idea came to me, whispered in my ear by the tree. I looked at Redbud speculatively. Oh, I couldn’t, could I? I shouldn’t. Or should I?

I became a tree climber at the age of four. Okay I actually climbed everything, and I was especially fond of trees. I am at heart a loner. When I craved solitude as a child, I scampered up a tree…the higher the better. The neighborhood kids rarely followed me up a tree. I would sit cradled by bark covered arms, hidden by leaves, and daydream, think and reflect. 

Redbud’s invitation to me this afternoon was to climb. 

It has been many, many years since I climbed a tree. I turned the invitation over in my mind. Should I? The idea appealed to me strongly. However, I have a trip coming up next week. I didn’t want to risk an injury. I am healthy and fit. But I am no longer a child. 

How sad if on this day of showing love to my favorite tree, I refused its invitation to play. I climbed. 

Love a Tree Day
I loved being in that tree! How exhilarating. How mindful I was that a year ago, I wouldn’t have attempted such a feat, couldn’t have done so, physically. My inner child whooped with joy. My middle aged self smiled…and could have stayed, sheltered by Redbud, for hours. 

I am grateful for the invitation and that I accepted it. Seated on a branch, I sent waves of love to Redbud. The scars it bears are testaments of strength, endurance, and perseverance. They are beautiful. I hugged a rough branch and offered thanks. 

My grandchildren enjoy climbing this tree. I sent them the pic above, via my son and daughter-in-law’s phones. The kids responded with an Awwww and then asked their mom Why? 

Megan’s response? ‘Cause she can! 

That’s right! I can. And I did. I was invited. That’s all it took. 

Love a Tree Day

Movie Review: Lion

Today I finally secured a copy of the last Best Picture nominated film on my list. Although I watched movie #8, La La Land, again last week, I didn’t do a second review. You can read my original movie review for this fun musical HERE.

This evening I settled in to watch Lion.

Movie Review Lion
Lion stars Dev Patel, Sunny Pawar, Rooney Mara, Nicole Kidman, David Wenham, Priyanka Bose and Abhishek Bharate. Garth Davis directed this biographical drama, based on the book by Saroo Brierley. The movie is rated PG-13, for adult themes, and has a run time of 1 hour and 58 minutes. Lion was nominated for six Academy Awards, including Original Musical Score, Cinematography, Best Adapted Screenplay, Best Supporting Actress for Kidman, Best Supporting Actor for Patel and Best Picture. It did not win in any categories.

Young Saroo (Pawar), is a five year old boy living in a small rural village in India. He often helps his brother, Guddu (Bharate), scrounge for food and coins in empty trains to help support his impoverished family. Saroo’s single mother, Kamla (Bose), is a laborer who struggles to provide for her three children.

Movie Review: Lion
In spite of their dire living conditions, or perhaps because of them, Guddu and Saroo share a close brotherly bond. They find joy in swimming together in the river, catching rides on trains and walking along the railroad tracks.

Against his better judgement, Guddu takes his little brother along for a nighttime job, working in a field. Little Saroo can’t stay awake, so Guddu leaves him at the train station, several stops from their village, and tells him to stay there until he returns. Saroo wakes up disoriented, and wanders onto an empty train, where he falls asleep again.

Hours later Saroo awakens to find the decommissioned train speeding down the track. The boy is alone and locked inside the train. Several days, and almost 2000 kilometers later, the train finally stops in Calcutta. Saroo, who doesn’t speak or understand Bengali, lives for a couple of harrowing months on the streets of that teeming city. He doesn’t know his last name or his mum’s name, and no one recognizes the name of his village. Saroo appears to be another homeless street kid. He is finally placed in an overcrowded orphanage, where he is adopted by an Australian couple, John (Wenham) and Sue (Kidman) Brierley.

Movie Review: Lion
Saroo adjusts to living with his new family, learning to speak English, and slowly the memories of his life in India receed. Until he reaches adulthood.

Older Saroo (Patel) is a bright, privileged young man who has a girlfriend, Lucy (Mara), and a career ahead in hotel management. But memories begin to stir, fragments from his past that bring a flood of emotions and create an ache in his heart for his first home and his first family.

Using dogged determination and a new online program called Google Earth, Saroo begins a painstaking and obsessive five year search to trace his steps back to his home village. He doesn’t want to appear ungrateful to his adoptive parents. But he is haunted by the awareness that his family in India never knew what happened to them and that they have searched for him, screaming out his name daily.

It’s been 25 years since he got lost. Can Saroo find his way home? And what might he find, if he does?

Movie Review: Lion
What a heart touching, and heart rending, film. I deliberately avoid reading reviews or articles about the Best Picture nominated films, so I can watch with an open heart and mind. Therefore, I didn’t know how this true story was going to conclude. I’m not going to reveal the end here either.

I can reveal that this is a powerful and poignant look at the strong desire we all have to find our way home. And in connecting with our place of origin, we rediscover ourselves, and come to know ourselves at a much deeper level.

Movie Review: Lion

As a real life adoptive mother, Kidman brought compassion and authenticity to the role of Saroo’s new mom. Patel was beautifully haunted as the older Saroo. And I was totally undone by young Pawar, who portrays the boy Saroo. Child actors can be so impressive. Pawar was amazing. He reminded me a little too much of my great nephew Kaleb, who is almost five.

The lost children of Calcutta broke my heart. The film’s credits informs that 80,000 children go missing in India each year, and 11 million children live on the streets. What staggering numbers. For the release of this film, the foundation #LionHeart was launched in collaboration between the production companies of this film, See-Saw Films, The Weinstein Company and The Charity Network. It will provide financial support to those millions of children living on the streets of India.

Movie Review Lion
I’ve completed the Best Picture nominated films for 2017. They all spoke to me in some way, deepening my appreciation for life or moving me to compassion for the brokenness of so many people. My top three favorite movies out of the nine nominated were La La Land, Hidden Figures and Lion.

Once again, I am grateful for this yearly tradition. Without it, I would miss some excellent films. They help me to grow, expand my heart, and cause me to see myself and the world through fresh eyes. And that is a powerful return for my investment of spending time watching movies.

Movie Review Lion
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Mother’s Day Beauty

It has been a lovely Mother’s Day weekend. Yesterday I spent time with my stepmom Jerri, who is my second mother, and my sisters and brother and several nephews and a niece. Today I enjoyed time with my mom. My sister Linda and I, along with her grandchildren Weston and Lola, took Mom and my stepdad Walter out to dinner. 

Mother's Day Beauty
Before Linda and her cuties arrived at Mom’s, I had time to plant a couple of flowers in my mother’s backyard garden. Last weekend Mom and Linda stopped by my backyard sanctuary, catching me working among my flowers. As they toured the garden, Mom admired my clematis plants, with their riotous purple and pale lavender blooms. They grow more and more gorgeous each year. 

Mother's Day Beauty

Mom mentioned that she should plant the showy flowers in her own yard. Well, with Mother’s Day approaching, my mom unwittingly gave me the perfect idea for a gift! Linda and I purchased two purple clematis plants for our beautiful mom, and I tucked those vines into the ground for her this afternoon. She can enjoy the flowering plants for years to come. 

Mother's Day Beauty
Back at Mom’s, after delicious veggie dinners at Cracker Barrel, I captured some fun photos.  Before I left, I felt drawn to return to the backyard, to take a couple of pics of the newly planted clematis vines. I often don’t know exactly what I am going to write about, until it is time to create the blog post. Oh, I figured I’d be doing a Mother’s Day piece, but I was open, my awareness on alert, as I moved through the day. 

Mother's Day Beauty

The clematis kept coming to mind as I drove home. The clematis… There was that Divine tap on my shoulder. I walked in my own garden when I got home, appreciating the soul stirring, heart lifting  beauty there. My clematis vines were even more gorgeous today. What was the connection here, that was trying to reveal itself to me today, between these flowers and my mother?

Greg and I had just this morning had a conversation about symbolism. Carl Jung says that signs are always less than the concepts they represent, while symbols stand for something more than its obvious and immediate meaning. Symbols hint at something not yet known…which is why I am so often drawn to symbolism and the deeper truths hidden there. 

Mother's Day Beauty
So I looked up the symbolic meaning of the clematis. Beyond obvious connections to beauty, the clematis is symbolic of ingenuity and cleverness, because of the vine’s ability to climb almost anything, clinging tenaciously, lifting upward toward the sun as it grows. The clematis also represents mental beauty and creativity. 

These attributes are certainly representative of my mother. She is beautiful as well, and there is so much more to her than that. She is one of the most creative people I know, clever and resourceful and inventive. Mom has modeled the creative life for me, from her story-telling abilities to her writing and gardening to her knack for repurposing items. I have learned to be tenacious with my own dreams, watching her cling to hers and birth them into reality. 

Mother's Day Beauty
I checked the word origin, something I love to do when I am looking deeper. The root word, klema, is Greek, and literally means vine branch. I immediately thought of Jesus’ parable about the vine and branches and the flow of life. The vine supplies life to the branches, leaves and flowers, which results in visible beauty. My mother is definitely the “vine” in our family, with my sisters and me branching off, carrying that vitality, that life, onward to our children and their children. My mom is surrounded by the “flowers” her life has created and sustained. Each beautiful bloom has a name. Together we form our family. 

Finally, I discovered that another name for the clematis vine is Traveler’s Joy, because this plant doesn’t stay still. It travels, it climbs, it reaches toward the light. Again, this describes my mom well. She loves to travel. I have inherited her love of wandering the planet. But it is more than that. Mom travels at a heart and soul level. She explores new ideas along with new terrain, takes the road less traveled, when she is off on an adventure or when she is contemplating life. She has a traveler’s mindset…pack light, go far, have fun. 

The clematis, it seems, is the perfect flower for my mom. I appreciate the symbolism and the deeper truths the clematis brought to me today. Mostly though, I appreciate my mom. So much of who I am is a result of her encouragement and her example. Traveler’s joy indeed. The life supplying vine that creates beauty. Clever and creative. My mom. 

Happy Mother’s Day Mom. I am grateful for you. I love you!

Mother's Day Beauty

Family Celebrations

What a fun afternoon, as family members gathered in Oklahoma to celebrate two birthdays and an early Mother’s Day. Surprised today, was my brother Bryan, whose actual birthday is Tuesday. He was suspicious when he arrived at his mom’s house, and found too many cars parked around it. And genuinely surprised, I think, to find his sisters, sons, mother-in-law and other family waiting for him on the back patio. He arrived kind of quietly, so we almost muffed up the shout of “Happy birthday!” 

Family Celebrations

Also surprised today was my sister Debbie, whose birthday is tomorrow. She thought she was attending a surprise party for our brother. My stepmom prepared birthday cakes for Bryan and Debbie and we all brought celebratory cards for both. 

Family Celebrations
And, because tomorrow is also Mother’s Day, we honored my stepmom, Jerri. She received her own stack of cards and loving hugs. 

Family Celebrations

It was an all out party. Steve grilled hamburgers and hotdogs and Jerri made her famous crockpot beans. Bryan’s wife Christel brought yummy hummus and I supplied organic non GMO tortilla chips and plant based dishes…potato and herb salad and colorful chopped salad. I passed on the burgers and hotdogs. And while everyone else enjoyed chocolate cake and ice cream, I had a delicious bowl of fresh chopped fruit. 

Family Celebrations
Family Celebrations
I appreciated that Jerri gathered us all together. There was much laughter and an easy flow of conversation. The four younger kids present had a big yard to run and play in and the covered patio offered protection from the sun while allowing the breeze to cool us. 

We chatted about life and summer plans, sang happy birthday, told stories and loved on each other. My family does many things well, and near the top of the list is celebrating each other. 

Family Celebrations
Family Celebrations
These are precious times, as we create joy filled memories. The hours spent together are made more poignant by the keenly felt absence of my father, who passed away seven years ago. I still hear the echo of his voice, and his infectious laughter, in this place, the house he shared with my stepmother. I know he was with us in Spirit this afternoon, celebrating Bryan and Debbie. And I know he must feel proud of his wife who walked so valiantly with him through his illness, and now lives life to the fullest, for both of them. 

Family Celebrations
As so often happens, after a fun day of being with each other, we vowed to get together again soon…for another celebration, or just because. 

Happy birthday Bryan. I love you brother and I am proud of the amazing man you have become. I look forward to many more adventures together, including a shared trip to Scotland! Let’s plan that journey soon. 

Happy birthday Debbie. I love you sister and appreciate your creativity and your compassionate heart. We have shared many adventures, with more just on the horizon. Thank you for walking with me. 

Happy Mother’s Day Jerri. I love you, my second mom, and I am grateful to have you in my life. Thank you for your gracious hospitality today and for your courageous and generous heart. 

I am so blessed with the beautiful souls that I call family.   

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Potato & Herb Salad

During the past few years, I’ve often expressed a desire to cook more often and learn new recipes and techniques. Ask and it is given. This is the way life works for me…I express a desire, and my outward world shifts, sometimes in totally unexpected ways, and opportunities to fulfill that intention appear.

Cooking is a creative activity for me, a way to learn new things as I play. My outward world shifted last July, as I embraced a plant based lifestyle, and all kinds of opportunities have appeared since, with invitations to prepare and cook foods in fresh, new ways.

Potato & Herb Salad
Tonight I enjoyed trying out a new recipe that I saved a week or so ago. From Anthony William, author of Medical Medium and Life Changing Foods, this savory side dish offers a healthy twist on an old summer favorite, potato salad.

Potato & Herb Salad
Using fresh herbs such as chives, parsley and dill, this potato salad is full of flavor without using sugar, dairy products or eggs.

Potato & Herb Salad
I left out the cilantro this evening, as some people don’t care for the taste. If I prepared this dish just for my consumption, I would add cilantro. I left out the optional jalapeño also, although I will try adding it next time, for a spicy kick. I did include the pinch of dried mustard.

I appreciated the inclusion of fresh dill. I love dill and inhaled the distinctive scent as I finely chopped the herb. And potatoes are an important staple on my plant based diet.

Potato & Herb Salad
Anthony shares that there are a lot of misconceptions about potatoes, which have been wrongly accused of contributing to obesity, diabetes, cancer and Candida overgrowth. It is actually the toxic oil that potatoes are often fried in and the butter, milk, cream and cheese that they are mashed with that contribute to those diseases.

Potatoes draw macro and trace minerals from the earth. They are high in potassium, B6, and amino acids, especially Lysine. Lysine is a powerful weapon against cancers, liver disease, inflammation and viruses such as shingles and Epstein Barr. Potatoes are also antifungal and antibacterial.

I often make a meal of seasoned roasted potato wedges with homemade marinara sauce, or a plain baked potato topped with sautéed veggies. Potatoes satisfy my appetite and also make me feel centered and grounded.

I sampled this easy to make potato salad before chilling it in the fridge. It was delicious, with the tang of dill and lemon, and a hint of sweetness provided by the honey. This potato dish is going to be a summer favorite!

Potato & Herb Salad
Read more about the health benefits of potatoes in Life Changing Foods. 

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