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Beyond my desire to explore Edinburgh, another purpose drew me to Scotland this year. Members of Clan Maitland, the Scottish clan I am part of, gathered in the city. To meet kinsmen I am connected to has long been a dream of mine. Five days after arriving in Edinburgh, that dream became a reality.
Clan Maitland gathers in Scotland every ten years. Family members descended from Maitlands and Lauderdales arrive from the countries they’ve scattered to. This year the US, New Zealand, England, France and Scotland were represented.
The next few posts will share details about our fun time together and the family related historical sites we explored.
Clan Maitland Gathers…for Tea
Clan members met for the first time on a Tuesday afternoon for a very Scottish tradition, Afternoon Tea. My sister Debbie and I walked the short distance from our apartment on Thistle Street to the Garden Room at the Kimpton Hotel on Charlotte Square. A few of our members, including our Clan Chief, would not arrive until evening, however this casual afternoon gathering proved a great way for people who are family yet strangers to break the ice.
What a joy to meet people I am connected with on Facebook whom I’ve never met face to face. We quickly embraced each other as kin and before long conversations and laughter flowed merrily around the room as we enjoyed a wonderful tea time.
That evening we all gathered at the Angel’s Share Hotel for dinner. The group from England arrived and I met Ian, the 18th Earl of Lauderdale and our Clan Chief. He immediately put us all at ease and entertained us with family stories. I learned that the Maitlands descended from the Mautalents of Normandy about 1000 to 1060.
Clan Maitland Gathers…on the Bus
The next morning we met early for our first full day of traveling and exploring together. Debbie and I smiled when we saw the bus, called a coach in Scotland, waiting for us. Lauderdale is such an uncommon name in the US. It’s fun to see it featured more prominently in Scotland.
Once on board the coach, we journeyed south to the small burgh of Haddington and our stop at St. Mary’s Parish Church and Lauderdale Aisle.
The Light of Lothian
St. Mary’s in Haddington dates back to 1139. With a length of 206 feet, it’s one of the longest churches in Scotland. Twice, in 1355 and again in 1548-49, the structure experienced extensive damage due to English invasions. The town repaired the west end of the church, erecting a barrier wall to seal off the east end, which remained roofless for hundreds of years.
In the 1970s restoration on the remaining section of the church began. Once completed the barrier wall came down and the church, called the Light of Lothian, continues to shine brightly in the community.
Clan Maitland Gathers…in Lauderdale Aisle
On the north side of the church, a small chapel awaited us. Because of the size of the room, our group of 30 plus people divided. Half of us toured the church while the others sat quietly in Lauderdale Aisle with Ian. Then we switched places.
I’ve read about Lauderdale Aisle, which once served as the sacristy of the church. It became a burial aisle for the Maitlands after the reformation of 1560. Entering through a stone archway, the marble effigies immediately draw the eye. The Renaissance monuments memorialize Sir John Maitland, Chancellor of Scotland under King James V, his son John, 1st Earl of Lauderdale, and their wives.
Beneath the aisle is a burial vault for the interment of the Earls and Countesses of Lauderdale. The Duke of Lauderdale rests within this chamber as well. There are also niches for the ashes of other clansfolk.
A Sacred Space
My group sat reverently on narrow wooden benches and listened to Ian share stories about the ancestors buried within Lauderdale Aisle. As he spoke a sacredness filled the room, shimmering in the soft light that filtered in through the window high on the wall.
I’ve so wanted to see this place. To experience it with my kinsmen, to hear stories told by my Clan Chief, created a surreal dream-like reality. I felt connection and awe, and deep gratitude for these men and women, long dead but surrounding us in spirit in this tiny room.
Ian concluded our time in Lauderdale Aisle by telling us that if we so wished, we could have our ashes brought here for interment as well. And he meant it. That amazing offer touched me in the part of my heart that declares itself Scottish and brought tears to my eyes.
Clan Means Family
St. Mary’s Church and Lauderdale Aisle were the beginning of a long day together. We enjoyed lunch in Haddington and journeyed onward to two more places before returning to Edinburgh.
Ian told us that clan means family. I learned when Clan Maitland gathers, connection happens. When Clan Maitland gathers, stories are told. And when Clan Maitland gathers, adventures unfold.
I’ll be sharing more of those adventures in upcoming posts. Come discover my family roots, and some of the finest historical sites in Scotland, with me.
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20 Replies to “Clan Maitland Gathers”
I would LOVE to go to Scotland. It’s on my bucket list for sure. My mom went years ago and always talks about it. I really want to visit, especially after these photos!
It’s a beautiful country!
I love all of this! The traveling, the connecting with other people, the sense of history. What a wonderful adventure.
It was so amazing!
this is so neat- ive always wanted to visit something like this and def have scotland on my list to visit!
It’s a beautiful country!
What a great tradition! Such a beautiful place!
It was! And full of historical significance.
What an exciting gathering to meet your clan for the first time! And what better way to do it than going back to your origin. Interesting story about your descendants going back to 1000 to 1060 era. I would love to visit Scotland. Hoping for next year. Thanks for sharing this story Cindy.
Thanks for reading! I so enjoyed being in Scotland and meeting kin.
What a great post! Scotland is such a beautiful place with such great architecture, I love the church. What a great experience and all the stories that were shared, bringing you closer to your roots. Thank you for sharing!
It was such a wonderful trip, with deep connections formed with the country and my kin.
Sounds like you had a great time.
Yes! It was an amazing experience meeting clansmen and touring historical places significant to my family.
I’m so jealous 😊
I so wish to do what you are doing. I’ve never been to Scotland yet but my mom was raised there.
By chance have you ever heard of the Bryden’s? Just a shot in the dark question.
Beautiful pictures and stories, thank you for sharing them.
Wow that’s amazing, that your mom grew up there! Is that her maiden name?
What an amazing and just overall crazy cool experience! 🍃 My husband has roots in Scotland and has talked a lot about traveling there to connect in such a way – or rather, how he’d love to have the chance one day. Thanks for sharing the beautiful photos and experience.
It’s an amazing experience, to connect so deeply with your roots and find kin.
How exciting to be able to gather with your clan. I’m so glad you shared your adventure with us. I hope you get to join in future clan gatherings as well.
Me too! It was an amazing experience.